Don't ever depend your happiness solely on a man. They are only good for disappointments. It is in their nature. Realise that everyone is in charge of their own happiness and dreams. Don't wait for anyone to fulfill your ambitions. Don't expect anyone to reserve their time and energy to make you happy, because people are too self-absorbed anyways. Be the captain of your own voyage; steer ahead and don't look back - not even for men overboard. Life is short. Do as you like, while you still want to.